Tag: San Diego

  • SUMMER DAYS – OPENING DAY AT THE RACES

    SUMMER DAYS – OPENING DAY AT THE RACES

    Beauty

     Good morning my little Gigi!

     My father would exclaim as he burst into my bedroom kissing me and then opening the blinds.

     Hurry out of bed and we can go down to see the horses.

     As I raised my sleepy head and yawned I quickly made my bed and pulled on my bathing suit not wanting to be left behind! This was a very special time with my father that I cherished.

    We jumped in the car and traveled the mile down to the beach.

    Riding on the Beach in Del Mar

    During the racing season in Del Mar, California which Bing Crosby, Bob Hope and Jimmy Durante were all instrumental in starting in the 1930’s. The horses would be ridden in the early mornings from the race track to the ocean. The trainers and grooms, men and women both, would walk them into the ocean because the salt water was good for their joints. Some riding bareback would take them swimming through the waves. The riders also galloped the horses up and down the beach. What a sight to behold!

    Daddy followed closely as I would scurry out of the car and down onto the beach. The delicious smell of salt air mixed with seaweed, horses and horse manure is one that I will remember the rest of my days. Exhilaration and anticipation abound because if I dilly-dallied or daddy did not wake me early enough on those Saturday and Sunday mornings the horses would be gone back to the track and I was sorely disappointed!

    Grabbing my hand we would walk down the beach. Then I would set myself free of his hand and run towards the horses, which seemed like an eternity away! Once we arrived huge smiles plastered on our faces we would watch these most elegant, stunning creatures as they were walked, run and cajoled into the waves for a swim! Many of the thoroughbreds had their legs wrapped with white tape. Some were hurt. Limping, the healing salt water must have felt so good to these athletic horses.

     What a shame this practice was outlawed on Del Mar Beach.

     Dog Beach is now where Horse Beach was up by the cliffs on the north end of town.

    When I was a girl, the horses were on the beach from about 6:30 -8:30 a.m. I was allowed to kiss and hug them. My father would lift me up to pat the necks of some. At the end of this magical period of time Daddy and I would say goodbye to the horses and watch as they left the beach walking under the 101 Bridge and back to the racetrack. It always felt a bit sad.

    Pushing me out of my dream world where I was riding the magnificent beasts I faintly heard my daddy’s cheery voice

     Ok my little Gigi, let’s go have a look and see who is on the beach today and have our swim!

     As we walked away from the horses, me feeling sad wanting to be bigger and having one or many of my very own, I hear my father’s voice,

    Look who’s here– Betty Grable and Benny Goodman.

     My father Lou, a showman himself, would walk right up to these people and say hi. On occasion there were some other exciting events to occur.

    One time my father walked up to a very pretty redhead on the beach.

     How do you do Lucy, this is my little girl Francie. She just loves watching you on TV!

    Well hello there!

    Lucy bent down to shake my hand with her brightly painted red fingernails that matched her vivid red hair.

    The Author Running into the Ocean

    Sweetheart this is Lucille Ball.

     Oh wow!

     I shouted,

    I watch you on TV every week!

    You just keep doing that baby!

     Lucy replied in her deep husky voice.

    The water felt so amazing as it hit my face. I dove under the waves and swam feeling so perfectly content, daydreaming of how it would feel to ride bareback into the ocean waves. Daddy laughed and I giggled as we played in the sea.

     Time to go sweetheart, breakfast will be waiting.

    A shower never felt better! I felt fresh and tingly all over and boy was I hungry! Mama would have a delicious breakfast waiting for us. We would eat in the top patio looking out at the sea where I had just been but half an hour before. Blueberry pancakes with hot crisp bacon and fresh squeezed orange juice never tasted so good!

     

    Bye for now,

    Good Luck at The Races!

    Francesca

  • A WALK DOWN MEMORY LANE

    A WALK DOWN MEMORY LANE

    Last weekend I was invited to a friend’s 65th wedding anniversary party. It was also the friend’s 90th birthday. This particular friend looks 20 years younger and acts it also! I overheard her say the other day to her 27-year-old granddaughter, I love your tattoos. They are so beautiful. If I were a young woman today I would have many of my own! My grandmother Frances used to say, “Age is a condition, youth is a state of mind.” Frances was also of the young club! All my friends loved being in my grandmother Mimi’s presence.

     

    Honey, there’s nothing new under the sun. Your generation does not shock me. We were doing all these things back in the roaring 20’s.

    After the party I drove my car to the end of the road and lo and behold it was where we all used to go to watch the fire works when we were in high school. A flood of memories rushed into my head. Young love, giddy flirting, bodies close together, dances, trips to the mountains with my friends. Fun memories. I took another road and there I was at Feather Acres Farm and Nursery. My mother use to buy plants from the man and woman who owned it when I was a little girl.

    The lady who has owned it for many years teaches riding and gives pony rides to youngsters on the weekends. What a beautiful piece of land overlooking the Del Mar Racetrack and the ocean beyond — a little piece of heaven, I thought.  I will bring my grand-kids for pony rides and riding lessons.

    I walked into the tidy greenhouse and bought a hydrangea and some lovely cut flowers. I also bought a couple of new ornamental bunnies for the garden.

    It’s been a great day down memory lane. :)

     

    Bye for now,

    Rippin’ Lips

    Francesca

  • THE DALAI LAMA VISITS SAN DIEGO

    THE DALAI LAMA VISITS SAN DIEGO

    I happened to be one of the fortunate people who heard the Dalai Lama speak in San Diego a couple of weeks ago. He spoke at UCSD, USD and SDSU.

    My brother-in-law, sister and mother and I went to see him at SDSU Dalai Lama Transcript of Speech. It was amazing to watch the throngs of people quietly moving along in an endless line outside the amphitheater. I felt like I was at a rock concert or sporting event except that there were people of all ages — mothers clutching newborn babies along with the elderly. Perhaps we all felt that to be in the same space as the living Avatar of our time, might give us blessings, hope or peace. Or maybe it was just curiosity and openness to see what might occur out of the experience.

    Peter Rowe, journalist for the San Diego Union, wrote a great article. A shout out to Pete, a childhood friend of mine. Seeking Traces of the Dalai Lama.

    We were first entertained by Viejas Casino Native American dancers in all their regalia. There were even little children dancing. The Native American dancing was spectacular and put one in the mood for what was to come.

    When the Dalai Lama emerged I was moved to tears and I venture to say that others might have been also. You could have heard a pin drop.

    Despite the fact that I felt like a little ant at the top of the amphitheater 12,000 people that day! It was amazing and such a spiritual experience to be in his presence.

    The Dalai Lama spoke for an hour and a half. His advice was simple. In a nut shell the Dalai Lama spoke of the importance of raising children with affection and love. That in turn gives one inner strength and confidence to carry on into adulthood with productive happy lives. People who have been raised with affection and love have open hearts and sound intelligent minds. If a person was raised with abuse or in a loveless environment, a person still has the ability to open his heart to let love in and have a sound, intelligent mind.

    Everyone has a special gift, one special gift to share with the world. The Dalai Lama pointed out that he is a Buddhist but that it is also important to be tolerant and accepting of other cultures and ways that people worship God. He also spoke that it is not even necessary to believe in God or a higher being as long as one is living a life of honesty, confidence from the heart, love and intelligent mind to help further the human race. The Dalai Lama loves scientists and talked about the gifts they give our world.

    Two questions and his holiness’ answers from students posed at the conclusion of his talk were as follows:

     As a culture with all the wars and horrors of our world are we improving as a human race?

    Yes we are improving as a human race and the scientists are doing their part.

    And then he referred back to the importance of human beings having open hearts filled with love to give and receive and sound intelligent minds.

     What do you believe to be most important to achieve in life?

    Happiness is most important — having a peaceful mind and heart leads to happiness.

    In conclusion the Dalai Lama spoke of the importance to live life honestly.

     Determination is important. Honesty is a social step. We should live our daily lives with no cheating and live honest truthful lives. To live in a more compassionate world, through knowledge comes advancement.

     You have the opportunity to make a new world. May you have a happy life, happy families, better world and make a contribution.

     

    Bye for now,

    Rippin’ Lips

    Francesca